Episode 49: When Creating is Complicated with Rebekah Lowell
From an early age, Rebekah roamed the outdoors with a sketchbook, sketching plants and marveling at the tiny miracles of the world. Homeschooled until high school, her childhood was a tapestry of outdoor exploration and artistic expression. Later, Rebekah pursued her artistic passion further at RISD (Rhode Island School of Design) for her BFA and Hollins University for her MFA. Rebekah's artistic journey did not stop there, as she ventured into becoming an author and illustrator of children's books. Her work is heavily influenced by her fascination or monarch butterflies, which she sees as representations of delicate yet enduring strength. Rebekah went through a period of personal struggle which forced her to suppress her passions, including her love for butterflies and art. However, upon breaking free from this decade-long abusive relationship, she rediscovered herself through art and nature.
Do What Lights You Up
Embrace the spark that sets your soul on fire, and prioritize your inspiration above all else. Chase after what you love without worrying about others' expectations. Rick Rubin's wisdom reminds us that creating for ourselves is the key to genuine and fulfilling art. Don't dim your passion for fear of not making it; focus on what truly lights you up. Your authenticity will resonate with the right audience, and remember, it's okay if your art isn't for everyone. Let your creativity be your guiding light and watch it lead you through any darkness.
Elizabeth Gilbert's book "Big Magic" reveals a captivating insight: when a compelling idea or inspiration comes knocking, we must answer the call. If we don't, the idea seeks its birth elsewhere, landing in the lap of another willing creator. The tale of two writers unknowingly working on the same idea serves as a powerful reminder of the creative magic that surrounds us. So, when you feel the pull of a grand idea, don't let fear daunt you. Embrace the challenge, overcome the obstacles, and chase your inspiration wholeheartedly.
Action Cures Fear
In the creative journey, emotions can sometimes play tricks on us, causing doubt and fear to cloud our path. Even for those who rely on their creativity for a living, finding balance between personal expression and external expectations can be challenging. However, embracing the idea of reserving something for oneself can be liberating. When faced with daunting tasks or new projects, remember that action cures fear. Despite inner struggles and worries, sitting down to do the work can help remove doubt and open the way for inspiration to flow. As the creative process unfolds, it's essential to recognize that each new creation may bring a sense of uncertainty, but pressing forward and doing the work is the key to unlocking creative potential and personal growth.
Art Is Intertwined With Our Hearts
The struggle to feel "enough" while juggling countless roles as a solopreneur is real. Yet, the beauty lies in acknowledging vulnerability and embracing it. Vulnerability grants permission to share genuine experiences and connect with others who may resonate with our struggles. The fear of sharing fades when we recognize that we're not alone in our emotions. Creativity becomes a lifeline during tough times, even when it feels weak, and it serves as a reminder that art is deeply intertwined with our hearts. The key is to start small, keep that creative spark alive, and honor the journey, no matter how challenging. Embrace the dance of emotions, allow them to shape your work, and remember that, like a workout, the creative practice will leave you feeling better and more connected with yourself.
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
Chase after what inspires you and make it a priority. Create for yourself first and don't solely focus on pleasing your audience. If you love what you create, others are more likely to love it as well.
Action cures fear.
It’s important to remember that our external successes don’t always reflect our inner struggles.
As creatives, it's natural to feel deeply. However, emotions can also sometimes hold you back from creating. It's essential to find a balance and navigate through the struggles to continue to create.
The metamorphosis of a monarch butterfly serves as a powerful symbol for the artist's journey. Shedding old beliefs, embracing vulnerability, and persevering through struggles are all part of the creative process.
Sharing personal struggles and vulnerabilities can not only help you find healing but it also connects with others who may be experiencing similar feelings and reminds others that they are not alone.
If you are finding it hard to create and don’t want to lose the spark, start with a sketchbook. You will feel always feel better after starting your creative practice.
Rebekah Lowell is an award-winning author/illustrator with a curiosity for nature. Her childhood, filled with wildflowers, finds its way into her work. A mother of two and survivor of domestic abuse, she is passionate about resiliency, freedom, and hope. Her MG debut, THE ROAD TO AFTER published by Nancy Paulsen Books/ Penguin in May 2022, and her picture book debut, CATCHING FLIGHT published by Doubleday Books for Young Readers in March, 2023. She is represented by Paige Terlip at the Andrea Brown Literary Agency.
Visit Rebekah’s website and follow on instagram.Blog Post that was referred to in this episode
Rebecca’s Books:Books Mentioned:
”The Creative Act” by Rick Rubin“My Friend Fear” by Meera Lee Patel
“How it Feels to Find Yourself” by Meera Lee Patel
“Big Magic” by Elizabeth Gilbert
More information on Monarchs:
Flight of the Butterflies (documentary)
Monarch Butterfly Status, US Fish & Wildlife
